星宇轩《世界名人英文演讲-Become your ideal self》[MP3_LRC]

[00:00.00]90听音乐网 www.90T8.com  [00:00.39]happinessistheprocessofbecomingyouridealself [00:04.97]completingamarathonmakesushappierthaneatingachocolatecake [00:08.97]raisingachildmakesushappierthanbeatingavideogame [00:13.03]startingasmallbusinesswithfriendsandstrugglingtomakemoney [00:16.87]makesushappierthanbuyinganewcomputerandthefunnythingisthatallthreeoftheseactivitiesaboveareexceedinglyunpleasantandrequiresettinghighexpectationsandpotentiallyfailingtoalwaysmeetthem [00:31.79]yettheyaresomeofthemostmeaningfulmomentsandactivitiesofourlives [00:36.97]theyinvolvepain [00:38.43]struggleevenangeranddespair [00:42.03]yetoncewevedonethem [00:43.55]welookbackandgetmisstiideaboutthem [00:46.95]whybecauseitsthesesortsofactivities [00:49.99]whichallowustobecomeouridealselves [00:53.47]itstheperpetualpursuitoffulfillingouridealcells [00:57.91]whichgrantsushappiness [00:59.93]regardlessofsuperficialpleasuresorpain [01:03.45]regardlessofpositiveornegativeemotions [01:06.96]thisiswhysomepeoplearehappyinwarandothersaresadatweddings [01:12.32]itswhysomeareexcitedtowork [01:14.26]andothersbeatpartiesthetrains [01:17.14]theyreinhabitingdontalignwithouridealcells [01:21.04]theendresultsdontdefineouridealcells [01:25.36]itsnotfinishingthemarathonthatmakesushappy [01:28.56]itsachievingalongtermgoalthatdoesitsnothavinganawesomekidtoshowoffthatmakesushappy [01:36.48]butknowingthatyougaveyourselfuptothegrowthofanotherhumanbeing [01:41.00]thatespeciallyitsnottheprestigeandmoneyfromthenewbusinessthatmakesyouhappy [01:46.82]itstheprocessofovercomingalloddswithpeopleyoucareabout [01:51.66]andthisisthereasonthattryingtobehappy [01:54.06]inevitablywillmakeyouunhappy [01:57.00]becausetotrytobehappy [01:58.60]impliesthatyourenotalreadyinhabitingyouridealself [02:04.28]yourenotalignedwiththequalitiesofwhoyouwishtobeafterallifyouwereactingoutyouridealself [02:11.30]andyouwouldntfeeltheneedtotrytobehappy