星宇轩《世界名人英文演讲-Be honest with yourself》[MP3_LRC]

[00:00.00]90听音乐网 www.90T8.com  [00:00.71]behonestwithyourself [00:06.01]whenthetopicofhonestycomesup [00:08.55]thegeneraltendencyistothinkaboutourrelationshipwithothers [00:13.27]weunderstandtheneedtobehonestwithpeople [00:17.27]ifyoucannottrustyourneighbortosaythetruthandyourneighborcanttrustyoutosaythetruth [00:23.25]whatsortofsociallifewillthatproduce [00:26.77]ifparentsdonttrustchildren [00:29.39]andchildrendonttrustparents [00:31.81]whatsortoffamilylifewill [00:33.45]resultitisunderstandable [00:37.11]thenwhywehavetobehonestwitheachother [00:40.47]honestdaywithyourself [00:42.49]beyondhoneststaywithothers [00:45.77]howeverhaveyoueverconsideredthatyourfirstresponsibilityistobehonestwithyourself [00:52.21]ifyoucannotbehonestwithyourself [00:54.41]howcanyoubehonestwithothers [00:56.63]ifyoucantconfronttherealityofyourownlife [01:00.45]howwillyouconfronttherealitiesofthelivesofothers [01:04.79]ifyoucannotfacethetruthaboutyourself [01:07.93]howcanyoutellthetruthtoothers [01:11.21]thebestyoucanbe [01:12.68]willbeahypocrit [01:14.17]whocanremovethespeackofdustintheeyesofothers [01:17.53]withoutregardsforthelogofwoodandhisownice [01:21.84]honestywithyourselfasawayoflife [01:24.28]youhavetomaster [01:25.50]ifyouwanttobecometheperson [01:27.14]youwanttobe [01:29.20]therearefourareas [01:30.56]whereyouneedtobehonestwithyourself [01:33.00]ifyouarenttomakeprogressinlife [01:36.38]behonestaboutyourstrength [01:39.41]thefirststeptoimprovementandprogressinlifeiscriticalselfassessment [01:46.11]ifyourenothonestaboutwhatyoucandoandcantdo [01:50.19]youwillneverimprovebehonest [01:52.97]enoughtoadmitwhatyourstrengthare [01:55.61]therearetwoerrors [01:56.95]youneedtoavoid [01:58.68]firstistounderstateyourstrengths [02:00.94]toreduceyourresponsibility [02:02.40]secondistooverstageyourstrength [02:05.86]tomakeyourselflookgood [02:06.52]itisbytakingupresponsibility [02:09.36]thatisstakingupsponsibilities [02:11.16]thatareintendthemourststgthth [02:12.84]thatwegrowandbecomebetterunderstatingyourstrengths [02:17.09]maymakeyourlifeeasier [02:18.55]butitwillneverhelpyoubecomebetterprogressinlife [02:22.77]comeswhenwetakeresponsibilities [02:24.93]aswetakeresponbilitiesasmuchasourstrengthth [02:28.07]andwegothroughconstantpractice [02:30.57]hohoweveritisimportant [02:32.31]nottooverstgestrengths [02:34.57]whenyouoverstateyourstrength [02:36.33]youlosetheopportunity [02:37.85]toactuallyimproveandincreaseyourstrength [02:41.47]thefakecannevercomparewiththerealastrenggth [02:45.11]youdisguisetolookgoodandlearnitwillneverserveyouinthelongtermcomparedtoastrength [02:51.47]youactuallydevelopeddoyouwanttogrowandbecomethebestversionofyourself [02:58.39]behonestaboutyourstrength [03:00.27]dontoverstateitanddontunderstateit [03:03.39]behonestaboutyourweaknesses [03:05.15]thisiswhereyouneedtobebrutallyhonestwithyourself [03:09.83]weallhaveweaknesses [03:11.91]theresagreatstrengthinadmittingourweaknesses [03:14.81]itprovidesopportunitiestogrowhoweverjustlikeyourstrength [03:20.23]dontunderestimateyourweaknesses [03:22.83]anddontoverrestimatethemwhenyoureoverestimateyourweaknesses [03:27.99]youwillbecometooharshwithyourself [03:30.03]thenmissmanyopportunities [03:31.73]thinkingyoucannotdoitwhenyoucan [03:34.53]theresnothingmoresadandbackwardthanthinkingyoucannot [03:38.33]whenyoucan [03:39.55]ontheotherhand [03:40.61]whenyouunderestimateyourweaknesses [03:42.73]youdeceiveyourselfthenmissopportunitiestoturnweaknessesandstrenggththeotherproblemisthatpeoplewhoarenothonestabouttheirweaknesses [03:52.44]tendtohaveproblemsandtheirsocialrelationships [03:55.70]behonestaboutyourweaknesses [03:58.48]behonestaboutyourgoals [04:00.96]yourgoalsarevalidbutnotallofthemarevalidnoworinthenextfiveyears [04:07.17]behonestaboutwhatyoucanachievenow [04:09.91]whatyoucanachieveinthenextfiveyearsandinthenexttwentyyearsisawasteoftimeandstrength [04:17.11]whenyouseektoachieveafiveyeargoalinsixmonths [04:20.75]orsixmonthsgoalinfiveyears [04:24.38]honestyaboutyourcapacitiesandprioritieswillhelpyoutoliveinorderedlife [04:29.60]whereyoucanhaveshortterm [04:31.42]mediumtermandlongtermgoals [04:35.41]whenyouaredishonestwithyourself [04:37.41]youbecomeanxiousandforgetthatlifeismeanttobelivedinstagesandwhatyoudoinayearisnotwhatdefinesyourentirelife [04:46.47]itallowsyoutotakethelongtermviewandlivelifestepbysteplikeamanclimbingaletter [04:55.44]honestywithothers [04:57.42]whenyouhavelearnedtobehonestaboutyourstrength [05:00.54]weaknessesandgoals [05:02.68]thenyoucanbehonestwithothers [05:05.38]youcannotgivewhatyoudonthave